1When you sit down to dine with a ruler,
         Consider carefully what is before you,

2And put a knife to your throat
         If you are a man of great appetite.

3Do not desire his delicacies,
         For it is deceptive food.

4Do not weary yourself to gain wealth,
         Cease from your consideration of it.

5When you set your eyes on it, it is gone.
         For wealth certainly makes itself wings
         Like an eagle that flies toward the heavens.

6Do not eat the bread of a selfish man,
         Or desire his delicacies;

7For as he thinks within himself, so he is.
         He says to you, “Eat and drink!”
         But his heart is not with you.

8You will vomit up the morsel you have eaten,
         And waste your compliments.

9Do not speak in the hearing of a fool,
         For he will despise the wisdom of your words.

10Do not move the ancient boundary
         Or go into the fields of the fatherless,

11For their Redeemer is strong;
         He will plead their case against you.

12Apply your heart to discipline
         And your ears to words of knowledge.

13Do not hold back discipline from the child,
         Although you strike him with the rod, he will not die.

14You shall strike him with the rod
         And rescue his soul from Sheol.

15My son, if your heart is wise,
         My own heart also will be glad;

16And my inmost being will rejoice
         When your lips speak what is right.

17Do not let your heart envy sinners,
         But live in the fear of the LORD always.

18Surely there is a future,
         And your hope will not be cut off.

19Listen, my son, and be wise,
         And direct your heart in the way.

20Do not be with heavy drinkers of wine,
         Or with gluttonous eaters of meat;

21For the heavy drinker and the glutton will come to poverty,
         And drowsiness will clothe one with rags.

22Listen to your father who begot you,
         And do not despise your mother when she is old.

23Buy truth, and do not sell it,
         Get wisdom and instruction and understanding.

24The father of the righteous will greatly rejoice,
         And he who sires a wise son will be glad in him.

25Let your father and your mother be glad,
         And let her rejoice who gave birth to you.

26Give me your heart, my son,
         And let your eyes delight in my ways.

27For a harlot is a deep pit
         And an adulterous woman is a narrow well.

28Surely she lurks as a robber,
         And increases the faithless among men.

29Who has woe? Who has sorrow?
         Who has contentions? Who has complaining?
         Who has wounds without cause?
         Who has redness of eyes?

30Those who linger long over wine,
         Those who go to taste mixed wine.

31Do not look on the wine when it is red,
         When it sparkles in the cup,
         When it goes down smoothly;

32At the last it bites like a serpent
         And stings like a viper.

33Your eyes will see strange things
         And your mind will utter perverse things.

34And you will be like one who lies down in the middle of the sea,
         Or like one who lies down on the top of a mast.

35“They struck me, but I did not become ill;
         They beat me, but I did not know it.
         When shall I awake?
         I will seek another drink.”

Parallel Verses

New American Standard Bible (©1995)
When you sit down to dine with a ruler, Consider carefully what is before you,

GOD'S WORD® Translation (©1995)
When you sit down to eat with a ruler, pay close attention to what is in front of you,

King James Bible
When thou sittest to eat with a ruler, consider diligently what is before thee:

Douay-Rheims Bible
When thou shalt sit to eat with a prince, consider diligently what is set before thy face.

Darby Bible Translation
When thou sittest to eat with a ruler, consider well who is before thee;

English Revised Version
When thou sittest to eat with a ruler, consider diligently him that is before thee;

Webster's Bible Translation
When thou sittest to eat with a ruler, consider diligently what is before thee:

World English Bible
When you sit to eat with a ruler, consider diligently what is before you;

Young's Literal Translation
When thou sittest to eat with a ruler, Thou considerest diligently that which is before thee,

Cross References

Proverbs 22:29 Do you see a man skilled in his work? He will stand before kings; He will not stand before obscure men.

Proverbs 23:2 And put a knife to your throat If you are a man of great appetite.

Commentary

Matthew Henry's Whole Bible Commentary

Chapter 23

Verses 1-3

The sin we are here warned against is luxury and sensuality, and the indulgence of the appetite in eating and drinking, a sin that most easily besets us. 1. We are here told when we enter into temptation, and are in most danger of falling into this sin: "When thou sittest to eat with a ruler thou has great plenty before thee, varieties and dainties, such a table spread as thou has seldom seen; thou are ready to think, as Haman did, of nothing but the honour hereby done thee (Esth. 5:12), and the opportunity thou hast of pleasing thy palate, and forgettest that there is a snare laid for thee." Perhaps the temptation may be stronger, and more dangerous, to one that is not used to such entertainments, than to one that always sits down to a good table. 2. We are here directed to double our guard at such a time. We must, (1.) Apprehend ourselves to be in danger: "Consider diligently what is before thee, what meat and drink are before thee, that thou mayest choose that which is safest for thee and which thou art least likely to eat and drink of to excess. Consider what company is before thee, the ruler himself, who, if he be wise and good, will take it as an affront for any of his guests to disorder themselves at his table." And, if when we sit to eat with a ruler, much more when we sit to eat with the ruler of rulers at the Lord's table, must we consider diligently what is before us, that we may not in any respect eat and drink unworthily, unbecomingly, lest that table become a snare. (2.) We must alarm ourselves into temperance and moderation: "Put a knife to thy throat, that is, restrain thyself, as it were with a sword hanging over thy head, from all excess. Let these words, Take heed lest at any time your hearts be overcharged with surfeiting and drunkenness, and so that day come upon you unawares-or those, For all these things, God shall bring thee into judgment-or those, Drunkards, shall not inherit the kingdom of God, be a knife to the throat." The Latins call luxury gula-the throat. "Take up arms against that sin. Rather be so abstemious that thy craving appetite will begin to think thy throat cut than indulge thyself in voluptuousness." We must never feed ourselves without fear (Jude 12), but we must in a special manner fear when temptation is before us. (3.) We must reason ourselves into a holy contempt of the gratifications of sense: "If thou be a man given to appetite, thou must, by a present solution, and an application of the terrors of the Lord, restrain thyself. When thou art in danger of falling into any excess put a knife to thy throat; that may serve for once. But that is not enough: lay the axe to the root; mortify that appetite which has such a power over thee: Be not desirous of dainties." Note, We ought to observe what is our own iniquity, and, if we find ourselves addicted to flesh-pleasing, we must not only stand upon our guard against temptations from without, but subdue the corruption within. Nature is desirous of food, and we are taught to pray for it, but it is lust that is desirous of dainties, and we cannot in faith pray for them, for frequently they are not food convenient for mind, body, or estate. They are deceitful meat, and therefore David, instead of praying for them, prays against them, Ps. 141:4. They are pleasant to the palate, but perhaps rise in the stomach, turn sour there, upbraid a man, and make him sick. They do not yield men the satisfaction they promised themselves from them; for those that are given to appetite, when they have that which is very dainty, are not pleased; they are soon weary of it; they must have something else more dainty. The more a luxurious appetite is humoured and indulged the more humoursome and troublesome it grows, and the more hard to please; dainties will surfeit, but never satisfy. But especially they are upon this account deceitful meat, that, while they please the body, they prejudice the soul, they overcharge the heart, and unfit it for the service of God, nay, they take away the heart, and alienate the mind from spiritual delights, and spoil its relish of them. Why then should we covet that which will certainly cheat us?

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